a merry little Christmas...






Well, we did it. Christmas #1 in California, complete. At first, I was apprehensive about being away from the regular Christmas routine in which we have participated for the last SEVEN years; but I have to say, all in all, we had a lovely Christmas here in the land of baywater and palm trees. We managed to maintain enough of our traditions to make it seel like Christmas, and even started a couple of new ones. The biggest challenge was finding enough people to give baked goods. I guess I need to make more friends before next Christms!
The season started with Karson picking out a Christms dress in mid-November. We put up our tree, which we bought at Keith's favorite local nursery, in the regular snowman-decked manner the first weekend of December. Karson had parties at school and at LEAPS (after school program)and hosted an adorable "12 Days of Christmas" for her friend next door. Keith and I both had parties for work, and I wrote an ode to eighth graders (we are studying poetry) and attached to some fudge and dream bars for my students.
When Christmas Eve FINALLY arrived Karson decided to warm up the season with a temp of 103 degrees and some vomitting just for extra merriment. Although I hate to see her sick, it was great to have her sleep all day while Keith and I cooked, cleaned, and put the final touches on our decorations for Christmas Eve dinner. We visited with the family back East on the webcam during Grandma and Jido's Christmas Eve gathering. Somehow, that was when Karson miraculously got better. She opened a present from Grandma and Jido, American Girl Ruthie, and smiled at her cousins and grandparents from 3000 miles away. After our visit, OUR visiters arrived, my sister and entourage. We enjoyed a scrumptious dinner, compliments of Keith, the highlight of which was a mushroom and gargonzola stuffed beef tenderloin in a burgundy wine sauce. I married well, what can I say? After dinner and a visit, Karson and Mason checked in with the Santa tracker and realized he was on his way up the west coast, having already visited the rest of the country. We said goodnight and put Karson to bed. She slept in her Christmas dress, "I want Santa to see it!" and konked right out, only to wake up at 1:30 AM to find the big guy had already been there. It took more than a little coaxing to coherce her back to bed without opening any gifts, and more coaxing at 2:30, 3:00, 3:30, 5:00, and 6:00. She put forth arguments such as, "this is the longest night ever!" and "I always wake up in Massachusetts on Christmas and it's already morning there!" After dad had declared "The New Rule" (nobody gets up before 7 on Xmas AM), we dug into the goodies. Karson was truly overwhelmed, not just by Santa, but by the generosity of her friends and family. She suggested we put some of the gifts in the garage because she couldn't even look at them all at once and played with a slinky from her stocking for the next hour, ignoring the Wii, new dolls, art supplies, and so forth. Keith and I laughed, and then took a much needed nap.
We spent the day resting and visiting with family via phone and webcam, then went to my sister's house in San Francisco for more celebratory jubilance. We played on Mason's Wii and ate a beautiful dinner. Christmas ended with all of us crashing into bed, completely spent, even with our less-rigorous Christmas schedule. I lay in bed last night feeling blessed. Even though I was apprehensive about Christmas in a new home, everything had been beautiful.

Gingerbread party, San Francisco-style

So I have been seeing pictures of the annual gingerbread party at the house-o-Gwen for years. This year, we got to see it up close and edible. Thanks to gingerbread, Rock Band, John's lasagne, my dream bars/fudge, great company and Hot Buttered Rum, the evening was a blast!

Red Cross Fudge


As my husband will admit, okay let's be honest, BROADCAST LOUDLY AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY, I am not the best cook. I can manage edible, healthy meals on a regular basis MOST of the time, but nothing special, and never without fail. However, that being said, each Christmas, I insist on baking. It is one of my happiest Christmas memories growing up, even though it was often done on Christmas Eve, accompanied by tears, compliments of mom (maybe she shared my talent?)\it was always part of Christmas, as much as trees, ornaments, and the Christmas Story. We would make divinity, date rolls, Russian Teacakes, and my favorite, Red Cross Fudge. Then we would split up our products on Christmas plates, and deliver them to friends around the neighborhood. The fudge recipe my mom always used was absolute torture to follow. I'm sure she violated several child-labor laws each holiday season by forcing us to stir until our arms reached muscle failure and, half the time, the fudge "didn't turn out". So why not find a simpler recipe? Tradition. My dad's mom, Grandma Ruby, found a recipe in the Newspaper during the Vietnam war that claimed it "got better over time", making it perfect to mail to troops over seas, one of the troops being my dad. I don't know if Grandma or Mom ever sent Dad any fudge, but the recipe has been cooked every year since 1968 by someone in my family. Since my mom died, making Red Cross Fudge has been something I never miss at Christmas time. I have even contributed a new ritual to the traditon, calling Grandma Ruby to get the recipe, because I lost it, AGAIN. This year, Grandma said, "Come on Karen, by now you must have it memorized." Well, I pretty much do, but I can't remember if it's four cups of sugar or six, and whether you stir for eleven minutes or thirteen, so I call Grandma. Even though my husband says, "You're fudge isn't even that good!" I stubbornly park myself at the stove for eleven minutes each December and stir contents at a rolling boil over medium heat; and guess what, half the time, it doesn't turn out. This year, I have made three batches of Red Cross Fudge, one decent, one that I threw out, and one perfect. The important part is that I did it, and had flashbacks of four kids arguing over who's turn it was to stir and who had to chop up the walnuts, and Mom saying, "I like to know when I'm getting a nut, don't make them too small"; and now my daughter, whenever we go to Fudgelato, ordering "Red Cross Fudge," because that's what mom makes and it's the best. Even when the fudge is dry, or hard, or doesn't set up, it reminds me of my childhood and happy Christmas memories.


Red Cross Fudge


4 1/2 c sugar

1/2 lb butter

1 can of evaporated milk

12 0z semi-sweet chocolate chips

2 c mini-marshmallows

2 c chopped walnuts


Melt butter in a large saucepan over medium heat; add sugar and evaporated milk. Stir, while bringing to a rolling boil. Once boiling, stir over medium heat for eleven minutes. Add chocolate chips, marshmallows, and walnuts. Pour into a greased 9 x 13 cake pan. Let sit for several hours.


Love you mom!

Channelling Martha?


Okay, I don't quite know what the reason is, maybe I just "need a little Christmas" (MAME ROCKS!), but I am really throwing myself into Christmas this year like a thermos of gatorade over a coach. Anyways, maybe some of my crazy craftiness will give y'all some ideas.

Stewart-style #1: reindeer candycanes. Karson is taking these as gifts for her classmates during their Christmaspalooza-first-grade-style. What I like about it most is, it's cheap! $6 for candy canes and supplies.

What you need: brown pipe-cleaner, candy canes, googly-eyes (no Sharra, don't remove anyone's actual googly-eye), and red pom poms. We also did some Clarices (Rudolf's main squeeze) for the girls, which adds black pom poms and tiny bows to the list.

Then take all that stuff and turn a candy cane into a reindeer. I think we did this as kids at a young womens activity or something, but I don't remember who to credit, not me, just my memory. Karson gets credit for the Clarice idea though. It was fun for us to make together and easy enough for her to do most of the work. Nice. Easy and Cheap!


Track Santa!

It has been a tradition at our house for the past few years to spend Christmas Eve following Santa on his toy-delivering exploits. Your family will love it!
http://www.noradsanta.org/

Thanksgiving


A Thanksgiving Wii tournament...fun...X-mas?


Grandpa, Grandma, Trevor, and Conner model the Thanksgiving costumes.


Keith and Karen at Grandpa's B-day lunch at MacCool's.


Kati, Ayden, and Karson at MacCool's


Happy Birthday Savannah!

Karson and Zulu giving the Stink some love

For the feast of great thanks, Keith, Karen, and Zulu piled into the Corrolla and drove 12 hours to Salt Lake City. We arrived on Saturday, November 22nd and checked into hotel Patrick-Nici-Connor. Zulu hit it off with Pat's dogs immediatly and spent the week frolicing in the backyard, snuggling up to Piggy, and licking Connor's head. Karson was so excited to see her newest cousing again and very impressed with his new trick - rolling over. A great treat was Karson's friend, Savannah having been courteous enough to be born around Thanksgiving, making it possible for us to join her for her sixth birthday party! We went to Jumping Jacks and kids and grown-ups alike joined in the bouncy fun. We also spent some time with the Medel Family. Karson made Thanksgiving costumes (who knew they existed?) with Trevor and Ayden in preparation for a reenactment of the Pilgrims fleeing England for a new land in search of religious freedom, along with their early friendship with the Native Americans, their first year in Massachusetts, ending with a fantastic celebration. The script was hilarious. My favorite part was when King Charles told the pilgrims they must pray the way he said, and Pilgrim Karson replied, "But we're bored of doing that". At Thanksgiving dinner the play was a hit, not to be surpassed by our wonderful meal. Keith, Karen, Patrick, and Nici spent Wednesday night cooking and the results were enjoyed by all. After dinner, we kicked off a Wii bowling tournament, girls against boys. Dad and Barbara were suprisingly into the game. In fact, Santa may bring Barbara a Wii for Christmas. Although we were surrounded by our Utah family, we missed our family in Massachusetts but were able to WebCam with the whole crew on Thanksgiving morning. We ended our trip on Friday with a little "Black Friday" shopping in Park City at the outlets. Keith loves Parley's Canyon. On Saturday, we headed back to California, happy and tired from our visit.

Patriots in CALIFORNIA!!

Keith took Karson to her first NFL game at Candlestick Park for "Steve Young Day". Of course, that's not the REAL reason they were there. The San Francisco 49ers were playing our favorite, the New England Patriots! It was a daddy-daughter great time with a lot of snacks and a Patriots' Victory! See? We are still New Englanders at heart.

Yosemite


Our trip to Yosemite has been one of our favorite California adventures thus far. Karson loved the redwoods. I could not believe how tall and thick they were with such a flimsy root system! And most amazingly, Keith actually agreed to be photographed a couple of times!! We did some hiking; Karson climbed some rocks; and we took a beautiful drive through the Yosemite Valley. We are looking at this trip as a "scouting mission", as we realized we will have to return many times to enjoy ALL that the park has to offer.

What I'm thankful for....


It has been a rough month for our family. About six weeks ago, my youngest brother, Philip, chose to take his own life. There are days when I am okay and can go about my business functionally, and there are days when I can hardly breath. This may sound like a strange start to a blog titled, "What I'm thankful for..", but in this rough time, there has been much for which to be thankful. First and most obvious, my wonderful little brother and the laughter, love, and service he added to this world during his life. Also, I am thankful for the love and comfort I have been able to share with my sisters and with Patrick as we all grieve the loss of our baby brother. I was raised in a very special family; that has become evident through all of this, and for that I am HUGELY thankful. Part of that special family is my dad, who has suffered so many challenges and sadness in his life. As we endure this loss, Dad has been a rock. In addition, my wonderful husband and daughter have provided so much comfort and cared for me to help me along. I will always miss Philip, and wish he had not done this, but I choose to be thankful for the great, strong, comfort that he was during his short life.

Alcatraz



Being just across the Bay Bridge from San Francisco has its benefits. One of them is the ENDLESS choices for day trips to museums, parks, and other attractions. We took our house guests to Fisherman's Wharf for lunch at Bubba Gump's, and from there on a ferry ride to Alcatraz, where we took a nice walk and an audio tour of one of America's most famous penitentiaries.

Sonoma




















Wine Country is only an hour away and with it, beautiful vineyards, fields, boutiques, and open space!! Something rare here in the Bay Area. Keith and Karen took a trip in late September, but this last weekend we returned to our favorite winery "Matanza's Creek" to share the tasting and the abundant lavendar fields with Grandma, Jido, and Uncle Billy.

Halloween




Halloween in Alameda was out of this world! With the decorations, jack-O-lantern mazes, and street performers, and hundreds of people, it seemed for like a carnival than trick or treat! Needless to say, our little Cleopatra made out like a bandit with the goodies!

Settling in...

Well we've been in California for four months now and are doing a lot of exploring. Karson loves her new school and is making lots of friends as well as inspiring a group of "scared older boys" whom she chases at recess with threats of hugs. Keith is enjoying his work and has been spending his "spare time" landscaping our yard. It's beautiful! Karen has jumped right into the thick of things at KIPP Bridge Charter School in West Oakland. She LOVES her students (not to mention the babysitting pool they have created to help with the transition).
Since our arrival, we have taken a couple of weekend trips to Yosemite and Sonoma, as well as exploring the Oakland Hills area on weekend kid/dog hikes.

New Home

New Home
We were lucky to find a carriage house with a private yard and a great school for little k!